the psychology of two
*Dyade is grounded in four decades of relationship research.
Grounded in Attachment Theory, Love Languages, the Gottman Method, and TKI Conflict Modes — our assessment gives couples a clear, compassionate window into how they truly connect.
A compatibility assessment built on real science.
Where most compatibility tools rely on instinct or novelty, ours draws from six distinct scientific frameworks — each illuminating a different facet of how two people relate, communicate, and grow together.
How you seek closeness, handle distance, and respond to emotional need in a relationship.
Learn moreThe specific ways you give and receive love — and whether your partner speaks your language.
Learn moreGottman's framework for identifying positive and negative communication cycles in couples.
Learn moreThe TKI model of how each partner approaches disagreement — and how your styles interact.
Learn moreHow each partner builds, maintains, and rebuilds trust — and how you recover after emotional ruptures.
Learn moreWhere your life goals, priorities, and core beliefs align — and where meaningful differences live.
Learn moreAnswer 32 carefully crafted questions drawn from six psychological frameworks. Takes about seven minutes. No right answers — only honest ones.
“I feel comfortable depending on my partner in times of need.”
Once you've completed your assessment, you receive a private code. Share it with your partner — they enter it to take theirs independently.
Return anytime with your code to see your full compatibility report once you've both finished — just save your code or bookmark your results page. Your results are never lost.
Both partners exhibit secure attachment patterns, creating a stable base for growth.
Overall compatibility score
Both partners exhibit secure attachment patterns, creating a stable base from which the relationship can safely grow and withstand external pressures.
🔒One partner defaults to accommodation while the other leans collaborative. Under high stress this asymmetry can generate resentment if unaddressed.
🔒Partner A's primary love language is acts of service, while Partner B's is words of affirmation. Conscious effort in both directions is recommended.
🔒The unconscious blueprint that shapes how you seek closeness — and what happens when you don't get it.
You've been showing love your way. Your partner has been waiting to receive it in theirs.
The same argument, different words. We map the cycle so you can finally step out of it.
The deepest layer of compatibility isn't chemistry. It's whether you're building toward the same life.
For educational and self-reflection purposes. Not a substitute for professional therapy.